Hi Reader,

Do you ever feel an inner tension during times of transition and change? Me too. So, let's talk about it...

Life Things

I spent the beginning of the week aggravated, tension pent up in my chest as I precariously straddled two worlds—

What I want to do with my time and energy and what I feel obligated to do.

How I want to look and feel and how I actually look and feel.

The way I prefer to respond to life’s disappointments and the way I sometimes react in anger, bitterness, and resentment.

The vision I have for my home and the dreary, dated rooms.​
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Here's what I wrote in my journal as I processed my thoughts and feelings.
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Then, it occurred to me that this supposed battle isn’t actually what was bothering me. What bothered me was the fact I was experiencing angst over it.

Almost as soon as I realized that, I understood the tension occupying my body, mind and soul is actually serving a purpose.

Once I embraced it, I recognized inner turmoil is simply a guide, pointing me toward the desires of my heart. This built-in compass spurs me to keep moving toward the life of freedom I crave while also accepting myself fully.

That second part is key, because I tend to think everything old is supposed to just fall away and disappear.

It's not.

Instead, as you heal and grow, so does your awareness. You're able to recognize when the old rises up and pivot much sooner. The process serves as a beautiful witness to your own growth.

So, when you see glimpses of a former version of yourself, it's okay. Remember how far she's come and give her space to keep learning.

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Home Things

I’d love to makeover my powder room before Christmas, especially since I’m hosting.

A little over a year ago, I took down the big, builder-installed mirror and hung a vintage mirror in its place. In order to remove the mirror, I had to also remove the hand towel rings. The holes I left behind are still there.

The wall behind the mirror is just sheetrock…no texture. The rest of the power room is heavily textured and painted in a faux tuscan finish.

I envision the powder room with a rich blue wallpaper and two sconces on either side of the mirror. I’d love to update the cabinet hardware too.

I’ve been holding out all this time because I intend on hiring it out…eventually. But, the other day I wondered if I’m meant to do it myself.

I’d have to learn how to apply a skim coat. I’d need to watch a tutorial to be able to change out the vanity light. The work would be hard, time-consuming, and messy.

I’m impatient and perfectionistic. Which is exactly why I should do it.

I’ll let you know what I decide.

Quick Things

*I’ve included a couple of Amazon affiliate links in today’s Quick Things. If you make a purchase through my affiliate links, I may earn a small commission. Fortunately, there’s no additional cost to you. I appreciate your support!

This Southern LIving’s pimento cheese recipe was a big hit at my niece’s baby shower last weekend. It’s also perfect for holiday entertaining.

I added *this quick-drying ,stone sink caddy to my list of kitchen (and bathroom) must-haves.

My *light therapy lamp is my saving grace during these shorter days.

Since I had to size up my jeans for this Fall and Winter, I decided to try these high waisted wow loose jeans. LOVE the loose fit and cut.

Wow! I’m so inspired by these creative and beautiful amaryllis arrangements!! I have just the spot in mind to plant one in my home.

Here’s what’s helping me take action toward my goals.

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Helpful Things

Thank you for joining me today. It's my pleasure to walk alongside you in your 'simply home' journey.

Wishing you simplicity and ease,